Thanks for writing this, Ellie; such a gorgeous tribute to a unique soul. Almost eerily similar to my essay, from the joyful spirit of our friends, to the way they died, to their final, hopeful, almost prescient messages to us. I hope, if there's a heaven, Terrance was there to greet Ty. They certainly would have been friends. Sending love and solidarity in your grief. So glad you have that beautiful baby boy to carry on his legacy!